parents, friends, and husband

Suddenly, I think about why we need a husband.
Maybe it is because we need a person who lives in the similar environment as us. Thus, he has the possibility to understand you and can talk with you and give you advise. Although parents love you, they live so for from you, I don't mean the physical distance, it's the spirit distance.
And maybe that means we are the only person we can trust in and rely on. we don't need to obey other people, we need to follow ourselves.